In 2016, over 800,000 couples divorced in the US. How many of them stay friends?
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I hope they come back together!!
He look like he’s a puff guy but he’s weak
Seems like personal distance got in the way of this marriage/connection. Their job schedules. Never seeing each other, etc. One of them needed to change that scenario in order for it to work. I know from personal experience. When you never see your spouse it takes a toll. Our situation is now different and we’re way happier. Either way, wish them both the best!
She is such a beautiful soul. He just rushed it all before he knew himself and brought her through his pain. Then left her when it got hard. You never give up! So what y’all were like roommates!? Get help, nurture your marriage…TRY! It’s not going to be pretty all the time. Marriage is about a journey together of changes, growth and a lot of humility… there is no room for selfishness. I just don’t understand. This wasn’t grounds for a divorce.
i made the mistake of watching this in class and now im crying in the middle of my lecture
that poor girl. he's not a real man, i have much sympathy for her
5:23 breaks my heart
I think he just wasn't strong enough to have that kind of relationship (marriage) and that's why he broke up with her, because I think everybody can see how bad they want each other (or is it just me?).
I'm not a expert at stuff like this but that's just the way i felt about that.
No sense living in the past. What's done is done.
It's sad because he's the one who jumped into the marriage and then he was the one to end it. I don't think he was fully ready when he asked. I mean at a concert is a cute/romantic idea but time will tell if you're going to spontaneously propose when you're not ready to live a married life.
You can see that they still love each other
Nice
Buzzfeed playing with emotion Again.
Last night my husband pulled an all nighter after working all day just to listen to me because my sleeping schedule is off from not being able to sleep due to being pregnant. I haven't seen much of him because I sleep up until he leaves for work. But that's not the hard part, the hard part is that he is selfish while I give myself completely for him. The things I've been through, I hope no one to go through. I'm working hard for my marriage and divorce is not an option. Only hope that I can remember to be happy and be the best wife, so that my husband can realize and God can change him.
Why would they divorce they look so happy together!😭
I really hate this guy. I know I'm not an expert in marriage, but as a married man, I know that marriage isn't always perfect. Both has their own flaws, but they just have to accept each other's flaws. Nobody said marriage will be easy, but you just don't give up on each other for petty things like job or money. I know it's cheesy, but at the end of the day, if you really love your spouse, you'll find a way to make your relationship work, no matter how bad it gets. It's clear that this guy didn't really love the girl on the first place.
Feels Sad for them😭💔
She was crying way before this was recorded
While sometimes Divorce can be okay and necessary (abuse, cheating) etc… the reason this “man” or should I say “boy” had… was not excusable. Divorce carries pain no matter who initiates it.
3:26 was he being serious???
And that’s why you have to lived as a couple together for 2-4 years then decide if this is the right time
How dare you give up on her like that… work out your problems, don’t ignore them 🙁
it’s sad how she’s doing this to have closure and the boy’s doing this for the money.
Aw this poor girl 🙁
That guy’s a total dick
I worked rotating 12 hour shifts and my husband worked either 3-11 or 11-7. It wasn’t until about 20 years later that I finally was able to work 8 hour days and he finally was put on days as well. We now get home 15 minutes apart. When he worked 3-11 I would go to bed from 8 to when he got home. Then we spent our time together from midnight till 4 in the morning for MANY, MANY years. I don’t regret a minute of it. It’s what you do if you love a person and want to be with them. You figure a way.
I GOT A THANK U NEXT AD AND I LAUGHED IM SO SORRY
the hug was really sweet☹️☹️❤️
Divorce is way better rather than being separated watching your spouse in another relationship while you're the one who need to take care your children.
She seems to still love him. I feel sorry for her. I was like this with my ex. I hope she finds happiness with someone else.
I feel so Sad about Her…. People like Her need to he Loved more and More
People with such good and Pure Hearts are needed in this World
Her Eyes Speak 1000000 times more than what she says
God Bless this Woman 🙏🏻
If Anyone Deserves Happiness and True Love, it's this Woman
I got divorced, it went so bad after 16 years I burned everything about it. So no going thru old wedding pictures for us and my ring is in the middle of the yard still after 5 years.
oh my god …..i can feel the pain… on her face when he kissed her on chick😭
Thumbs down, because I hate seeing her sad, and the boy is selfish
Why did he try to fight for her? He just gave up
I think she still love him ☹️
I'm glad I'm not married yet. Too bloody expensive to get married and divorced. Both my partner and I are happy the way things are. He keeps out of my way and I get in his way (joking) nah he works during the week and I work weekends, but we still make time for each other as well as family time with our 2 kids. Each relationship is different, so you really can't say your relationship is the same as theirs.
Honestly 🖕🏽him. I wouldn’t want to be friends with him. He filed for divorce cause his job had him up & out 4am & they didn’t get to see each other as much. Welcome to adulthood! There are tons of people who work & don’t have the time for things but you know what? They make the time for things that are important to them. You have to make time. He made the time to go to the courthouse to file a petition for divorce but not the time to look for another job or try to connect with his wife. Just say you wanted out & go about your business.
your job isnt a reason to get a divorce, just get a different job if it caused that much strain on your marriage
This makes me sad
So many psychologists in the comments!!! I am impressed!